Ahhhhh! no one told me that even a simple wedding is stressful. i'm getting married in september. help!?

i'm not having a wedding due to family drama. we're getting married at the courthouse & having a small celebration at my in-laws'. 1st problem is i live in small town & we want to get married at the courthouse there i have to get my hair done & wedding photos & rent a tux & get leave 4 our honeymoon. all on the same day & my hair salon is in a different town & my photographer is in a city in the opposite direction & i can't do anthing the day before cause my boyfriend has to work & the day after we will be on our honeymoon. how can i pull this off? don't say have everything at my hometown cause its not possible due to being a small town. 2nd problem is how do i tell my mother not to bring my sister & avoid drama? she takes everything to the extreme. nobody likes my sister & her thug boyfriend. she has no respect for peoples stuff & has 3 kids & will have a newborn by then, that she doesn't watch cause my mother or i do & i will be busy & my mother can only control one at time.