Do I just give my mom some time?

Well earlier today my mom & i were talking about my new boyfriend. And she suggested that i invite him down for thanksgiving (he lives 2 hours away) i asked my dad he never gave an answer. then my moms like why didnt u invite your bball bf down? I shot her a look, cause one that guy she was talking bout was an ex. and two because she just totally betrayed my trust. (my dad didn't know about him) hes like what then they started to bug me for internet issues and stuff. then my mom knows i dont like being teased cause ive been bullied alot & she kept teasing me about boys and stuff then i got mad im like mom stop. im getting mad at you she kept going then i was very tempted to punch so i like punched the couch near her, not actually hitting her. shes like do that again your grounded. I did it again shes like your grounded im like well you know i dont take well to being teased shes like oh get over it im like shut up i got really pissed off / hurt cause she knows i cant get over it. She yelled at me to go cool down so I did i went to my room cried from anger& crap then i layed down. Relaxing not thinking not listening not doing anyhting just laying there then she stormed down the stairs screamed at me get your *** out of bed and answer the phone ive been calling you. Im like no i never heard you shes like ANSWER THE EFFING PHONE im like fine. so i answered. Went to my friends party came back I apologized. then shes been giving me the silent treatment so im like whatever. Yes i'll admit i ahve an attitude when people dont leave me alone & Yes with her i get one. But why should i have to feel bad because she pushed me to the edge?. chances are tomorrow shes going to either be a real ***** or nice as hell. Should i just give her some time and space or what?