Parents....? cant understand them at all.?

my parents are like uh.....oh my dad dosnt want me to have a bf i'm 14 nd cuz of 'em i cant be maself i have to act obedient innocent well ma whole family thinks it aint gud to flirt wen they see sum teens deyy know flirting wen they actually are jus friends talking........ nd i would luv to flirt but i guess i cant ...... in ma skool der r many boys back o me nd for so long deyy tink i'm so innocent nd cant actually talk(flirt) wit me